One way for reconciliation:
When we don’t see eye-to-eye… try to hear ear-to-ear.
It also helps greatly to not speak while the other person is speaking.
Or as Russian Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi (1745-1813) wrote,
“A little bit of light dispels a lot of darkness.”
“But blessed are your eyes, for they see, and your ears, for they hear.” Jesus