GETTING OVER IT
There is no denying issues happen that are terrible and un-chosen… but anger, resentment and ‘get even’ will probably not help solve the problem or heal the wound. It just feels good to our flesh and ego.
Even when we get over it, or past it… we still may need to get over it and past it. Maybe its not so much about doing… as it is about undoing. One thing is sure; we rarely forget it. Though we may resolve an issue and go through forgiveness and restoration… we still remember it and I think that’s normal. It is not something to dwell on but it is something to learn from and be wiser in the future. By grace, maybe at some point we won’t remember wrongs done to us, or the wrongs we have done.
The Palmist wrote, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3).
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” Jesus